As a collaborative divorce and prenup attorney, I help people navigate love’s transitions with grace. But before Aloha Divorce was born, I was a bride planning my own wedding—just like many of you might be doing now.
If you’re planning your big day in Southern California, I wanted to share the incredible vendors who made mine beautiful, joyful, and surprisingly stress-free. Every one of these folks was kind, talented, and a dream to work with. Consider this my personal recommendation list from someone who knows how important thoughtful, clear-headed planning really is.
Premarital & Postmarital Agreements
Cassandra Koenig, Attorney at Law – Aloha Divorce™
Let’s talk about love and logistics. I help couples create clear, fair premarital (prenup) and postmarital agreements that support their long-term goals—without the drama or awkwardness. My approach is collaborative, efficient, and rooted in mutual respect.
📍 Based in California (Serving clients statewide)
📧 Cassandra@alohadivorce.com
🌐 www.AlohaPrenups.com
Day-Of Coordinator & Florist
Courtney & Heather Dahl – Breezy Day Weddings
These sisters were lifesavers. Courtney made the day run smoothly while Heather created stunning florals that brought the vision to life.
📞 858-336-5019 (Courtney) | courtney@breezydayweddings.com
📞 858-361-5919 (Heather) | heather@breezydayweddings.com
🌐 breezydayweddings.com
Wedding Dress
The Bustle Bridal Boutique – Del Mar
From the first appointment to final fitting, the team at The Bustle made me feel like a queen. Their boutique is intimate, their selection is stunning, and their stylists truly listen to your vision.
📍 1302 Camino Del Mar, Del Mar, CA 92014
📞 858-523-9254
🌐 thebustledelmar.com
Venue
Lita Dantes – San Diego Botanic Garden, Encinitas
A naturally magical setting! Lita and her team were incredibly responsive and helpful.
📍 300 Quail Gardens Dr., Encinitas, CA 92024
📞 760-436-3036 x221 | LDantes@SDBGarden.org
🌐 sdbg.org
Photographer & Videographer
Carlos Lopez Medrano – Blue Spot Photography
Creative, calming, and truly captured every emotion.
📍 2228 Fenton Pkwy, Apt. 213, San Diego, CA 92108
📞 619-370-5672 | info@bluespotphotography.com
🌐 bluespotphotography.com
Catering
Ashley Mitchell – Terra Catering and Events
The food was insanely good. Their service was seamless and so thoughtful.
📍 7091 El Cajon Blvd., San Diego, CA 92115
📞 619-993-1437 | events@terracatering.com
Dessert
VG Donuts – Cardiff-by-the-Sea
We had a donut wall. Yes, it was as amazing as it sounds.
DJ & Lighting
Vynce Pham – Music Phreek
Vynce brought the party energy and kept things classy.
📍 3702 Gum Tree Glen, Escondido, CA 92025
📞 858-449-2669 | vyncep@yahoo.com
Ceremony Musician
Desi Relator – Music by Desi
A ukulele soloist who made the ceremony unforgettable.
📍 P.O. Box 595, Carlsbad, CA 92018
📞 760-687-6771 | contact@musicbydesi.com
Photo Booth
Nicole Mendoza – Can Ham Photo Booth
Fun, nostalgic, and a guest favorite!
📞 858-245-1361 | canhamphotobooth@gmail.com
Whether you’re planning your wedding, building a prenup, or navigating a peaceful separation—I believe in building with intention. If you’re looking for someone who can help you do that with heart, I’m just a click away.
