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When Prenups Go Wrong: The Knapp v. Ginsberg Malpractice Case Explained

In a landmark case decided on August 5, 2021, the California Court of Appeal tackled a complex intersection of family law, estate planning, and legal malpractice in Knapp v. Ginsberg (2021) 67 Cal.App.5th 504. The court’s ruling offers a cautionary tale for attorneys involved in preparing prenuptial agreements—and a strong reminder of the strict requirements […]

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Marriage Counseling or Mediation? Choosing the Path That’s Right for You

At Aloha Divorce™, we know that every relationship is unique—and so is every transition. Whether you’re working through challenges in your marriage or preparing for a peaceful separation, it’s important to choose the right type of support for your situation. When Marriage Counseling May Be the Right Fit: Marriage counseling focuses on healing, growth, and

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Navigating a High-Conflict Divorce: How to Protect Your Peace and Your Kids

Divorce is never easy. But when you’re separating from someone who exhibits high-conflict or narcissistic behaviors, it can feel like you’re stuck in an emotional hurricane. If you’re facing constant manipulation, gaslighting, or being dragged into unnecessary conflict—you’re not imagining it. And you are not alone. At Aloha Divorce™, we help people move forward with

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My Wedding Dream Team: A Trusted Vendor List from a Divorce Attorney Who Still Believes in Love

As a collaborative divorce and prenup attorney, I help people navigate love’s transitions with grace. But before Aloha Divorce was born, I was a bride planning my own wedding—just like many of you might be doing now. If you’re planning your big day in Southern California, I wanted to share the incredible vendors who made

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Designing Your Premarital Agreement: What You Should Know About Prenups

Inspired by The Prenup Prescription by Aaron Thomas At Aloha Divorce™, we believe a prenuptial agreement is more than just a legal document—it’s an opportunity to build your marriage on a foundation of clarity, communication, and shared intention. Whether you’re planning your first marriage, blending families, or protecting a business, a well-crafted prenup can help

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Why The Date of Separation Matters in Your California Prenup

Let’s be real—separations aren’t always dramatic exits with someone storming out and slamming a door. In California, “separation” isn’t just about who’s sleeping on the couch or who moved out first. It has a very real legal meaning—especially if you’ve got a prenuptial agreement in play. Here’s what you need to know (without the legal

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Why Relying on Luck Isn’t a Sound Strategy: The Case for Prenuptial Agreements

St. Patrick’s Day may be the time for shamrocks, parades, and a little Irish luck, but when it comes to your future financial and emotional well-being, luck alone isn’t enough. As romantic as the idea of a “happily ever after” is, a solid foundation for marriage involves more than just love. It requires open communication,

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Looking Back, Moving Forward: Finding Gratitude in Past Relationships

In the wake of a breakup or divorce, it’s natural to feel a mix of emotions—sadness, frustration, maybe even regret. But what if, instead of dwelling on what went wrong, you chose to reflect on what you learned? Every relationship, no matter how it ended, has given you valuable insights about yourself, your needs, and

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My Fiancé Asked Me to Sign a Prenup—Does He Not Trust Me?

When your fiancé brings up a prenuptial agreement, it can feel like a punch to the gut. After all, aren’t prenups for people who expect to get divorced? Doesn’t this mean they don’t trust you or believe in your future together? These are normal questions, and it’s okay to feel a little thrown off. But

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Family Law & Finances: Why They Go Hand in Hand

When most people think about family law, they focus on the emotional and legal aspects of marriage, divorce, and co-parenting. But at its core, family law is deeply tied to financial well-being. Whether you’re getting married, separating, or planning for the future, financial considerations play a major role in legal decisions. At Aloha Divorce, we

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